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Early pregnancy/ Abortion options?

What are early symptoms of pregnancy and is it common to experience the "I just know" thing? Is loss of appetite normal? Is it normal to get really depressed over a boxed test? And about abortion...does anyone know if blue cross or kaiser cover it? Or is it strictly a clinic thing? And can anyone tell me anything about the abortion pill (how bad is the bleeding? how long does it last? any recovery/side affects?Are you okay to drive home alone afterwards?) How often are at home tests false? note: I know this is premeditated and I know many of you on here are anxious to concieve. But having a baby is not an option for me right now, I hope toget rid of it early to prevent emotional attachment. Also I am in this alone, and every aspect of my life has recently fallen apart (changed my job=no insurance for 3 months, broke up w/my guy of 6years, lost my roomates, lost my house, getting sued, identity theft,) so please dont be critical about the situation, It's not something I want to do

Public Comments

1. While I don't recommend abortion in any case, some of the early symptoms of pregnancy are, sore breasts, frequent urination, nausea, vomiting. I recommend you go talk to a doctor and find out for sure and then explore your options.
2. Go to the doctor and get a pregnancy test and most likely depending on where you live abortion is covered. But my advice is get on birth control or use condoms if you dont want a kid. And after an abortion you need to have some one drive you home since it sounds like you lost everyone take a cab.
3. I don't really have any advice but I would just like to wish you good luck.
4. Don't kill your baby just because it isn't convenient for you. By having sex, you know you had the risk of pregnancy. Get some counselling, have the baby and give him/her up for adoption - so someone else can treasure this precious life.
5. You need to discuss all of this with your doctor. They can tell you all you need to know right down to weather the ins. will pay or not.
6. If you think you won't be emotionally attached you are wrong. Most women who have had an abortion think about it often, Be sure this is something you really want to do. That being said, insurance does not cover abortions it is strictly a clinic thing. It is costly and you will have to miss some work. I don't know much about the pills, but I think it is used for backup when you have unprotected sex. That's why it is called the morning after pill. Make some phone calls and get more information. Good Luck!!
7. while not being a critic I wanted to let you know about some real options. yes everything your feeling is completely normal plus tiredness, low selfestem,and many other things. while you are still pregnant i do think you should try taking some prenatal vitamins if gor no other reason than straightining out your hormones that are out of wack. if you think you could handle the pregnancy and not the baby there are agencys that let you pick the family the baby can be givin to and you will have done a "greater good" medically they will led you exactly where you need to be for it to be cost free. You are not alone in doubt that is something we have all experianced. I know. find out your timeline for optional abbortion so that you have a while to think about termination and use that time to make the decion that suits you.your concern and open mind shows how strong you really are thoughknow that if you cant at this point in your life there is people out there you could be an answer for. than everything your feeling and going through is not for not
8. Just for the sake of the baby's life, I really hope and pray you are not pregnant. Abortion cannot be justified whatsoever.
9. The emergency morning after pill has to be taken within 72 hours after having intercourse. There are no guarantees it will work and may even hurt an unborn baby. I know it is your personal choice to do as you please with your body. Please keep in mind there are so many couples that would gladly take your baby (if you are pregnant) and give that child everything. Abortion will haunt you for the rest of your life. You may not think about the consquences now but just remember as you grow and mature in age you will realize that maybe you should have made a different choice. Give the gift of life and offer it to a loving couple. You are not alone! You have God with you. A couple that would like to have this child will take care of you with room and board ...food until you birth your child. Your life hasn't fallen apart. It is hard now but tomorrow is great because it means you have a chance at a better day.
10. im a single mom and i had her wheni was 16 so if i can do it so can you so there for stop havin sex and this shit will not happen
11. Having a baby was "not an option" for my mother either, but thankfully she chose life...I thank her again wherever she may be for giving me the chance at life...I don't mean to sound judgemental, I just want you to know that you are not alone, and this is really not your decision to make...think about it!
12. Call your insurance company and ask. Usually depends on what your company selected as part of its coverage. Hate to tell you, but it doesn't matter how early you have an abortion, you're still going to carry regret.
13. Put that baby up for adoption. You are grown and should know what the consequences of UNPROTECTED SEX leads to...babies and other things. You could have prevented this and it bothers me that people can just lay on their backs whenever they feel like it, have sex, get pregnant knowing that they do not need any babies and just kill it off just like that.
14. But having a baby is not an option for me right now... You've got to be kidding me if having a baby is not an option for you then why are you even thinking about sex... don't you know that there are birth control methods out there that can prevent pregnancy...There are so many people out there that can't have children and you getting pregnant is not an option for you! Well honey my advice is to STOP HAVING SEX.......Don't Kill that poor innocent child!!! If you are pregnant! Does the father know! How would he feel He does have the right to know... you were with him for 6 years doesn't that make you think!!!!!
15. Call the local Planned Parenthood Clinic in your area and discuss this with them. They'll have all the answers for you. Don't fret about an abortion. You cannot 'kill' something that has not lived.